Memorial Day...Can it really be happy?

I know we all spend the time before Memorial Day preparing for parties and visiting with friends and family. If our family does not have an active member of the military we still send out our best wishes to all who have.

But as I hear myself and others wishing each other a "happy" memorial day I wonder is this really possible? Memorial Day commemorates all the folks who have lost their lives in service to the United States. So shouldn't Memorial Day be more of a solemn holiday? I guess because it also falls at the start of the summer season people tend to focus on the fun outdoor activities and delicious food that comes along with BBQ season.

So I am suggesting that in between your weekend celebrations you take a few minutes to really remember what this day is all about. Whatever your political leanings every American should feel a heartfelt gratitude to those who lost their lives while serving this country. We should also honor all those who willingly joined the forces, served and made it home. They should have a special place in our hearts. And lastly, the folks that are actively servicing today as we enjoy our freedom here at home. We should wish them a safe return and protection while they are away.

Let's just dream that someday we won't need to have these courageous people and lives will not need to be lost in order for everyone in the world to live in peace and harmony. 

Here's to that dream.

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