Memorial Day...Can it really be happy?

I know we all spend the time before Memorial Day preparing for parties and visiting with friends and family. If our family does not have an active member of the military we still send out our best wishes to all who have.

But as I hear myself and others wishing each other a "happy" memorial day I wonder is this really possible? Memorial Day commemorates all the folks who have lost their lives in service to the United States. So shouldn't Memorial Day be more of a solemn holiday? I guess because it also falls at the start of the summer season people tend to focus on the fun outdoor activities and delicious food that comes along with BBQ season.

So I am suggesting that in between your weekend celebrations you take a few minutes to really remember what this day is all about. Whatever your political leanings every American should feel a heartfelt gratitude to those who lost their lives while serving this country. We should also honor all those who willingly joined the forces, served and made it home. They should have a special place in our hearts. And lastly, the folks that are actively servicing today as we enjoy our freedom here at home. We should wish them a safe return and protection while they are away.

Let's just dream that someday we won't need to have these courageous people and lives will not need to be lost in order for everyone in the world to live in peace and harmony. 

Here's to that dream.

John Lennon Video from YouTube Imagine

More Government Folks Watching Porn

After reading the article from Fast Company Meth, Porn, Guns, Graft at Agency Overseeing Gulf Oil Companies I became further frustrated not only with the current environmental crisis in the Gulf of Mexico but the apparent availability of government workers to view and share porn on government computers shared on government email systems.

Seriously?



Just when you think it's the world running a muck you find that it's not the world it's the people who are running the world that are running a muck. Big corporations and big government agencies have proved that bigger is not only not better but is in most cases not responsible or holds no one responsible.

Ok, I know I said I was going to stay on media topics. But this story, while it does pop up in the media, still deserves more attention than it's getting right now.

Too many people have their fingers in the till on this one. Too many boondoggles, too many bad promises and clearly no sense of simply right and wrong. 

Folks in the Gulf Coast and around the rest of the country should be out protesting. This catastrophe needs to be made right. We need answers and we need people held accountable. No more finger pointing.

Hasn't the Gulf area suffered enough? First Hurricane Katrina, now this? It's unimaginable.

If you can help, please contact the Sierra Club or some other environmental group to help save the environment the many species that may not recover from this disastrous oil spill.

Boycott BP. Do not provide financial support for this company this includes Castrol, Arco, Aral, am/pm, Amoco, Wild Bean Cafe and Safeway Gas.  Join the Facebook Boycott bp Group which provides news updates as well.

Lastly, it's time to let the government know that the time for usage of alternative sources of fuel is now, not years from now. It needs to be a priority. We need to stop pandering to the big oil companies and start seriously looking for alternatives.

Thanks for listening. As you know, I think this is an important situation, I do not typically discuss these types of situations but this article just made a bad situation even more deplorable.

It's Just Getting Started

So now Time wants to take on the Facebook privacy issue. I still can't get over how many people are still talking about this. To me it's like people who complain about certain television shows, or movies or any "entertainment" they might consume. It's so simple. Turn if off, close your account, change the channel, read a book, take a walk, talk to your family - just do something else.

Before I continue, I must say that I am also shocked that Facebook privacy has become more important that the Gulf of Mexico Oil Spill. I just can't think of something that is more important than the effects this mess will have on our environment for generations to come. I digress. 

While I'm on the topic of privacy. I forgot to mention in my post yesterday that during one of my scans of my Tweetdeck yesterday, I noticed a rather large media companies tweet about how cool a certain perk that a certain vendor had provided was. I usually wouldn't pay much attention or comment on it but I've noticed this several times from the same company, and it irked me. Yes, irked. Although working in media does inherently come along with a certain amount of perks, I don't think it's right to brag about it or even call attention to them. I was schooled by a very bright media director who very rarely talked about the perks that he got, with co-workers or clients. I followed that rule and thought it was smart knowing that not all people in the business or for that matter sometimes even on your team have the same privileges. It's just a little classier. Anyway, back to the subject at hand, since this type of information was sent out for the John Q. Public to see I immediately felt like here's some junior level media person bragging about their perks. In the current environment, there are still plenty of people looking for jobs, or struggling in the one they do have so I don't know what good this post does for anyone. One might say reading this post that others may be encouraged to go work there, I hope there's more reason to work there then free pizza and a night out with co-workers.

When all is said and done I would hope that someone in management is reviewing or guiding the messages that are being shared. If we haven't learned anything from the social networking sites it's that information spreads very quickly. You want to be sure you know what's being said and you want to be sure it reflects your company in the most positive light it can. It's very much like PR. It's hard enough to repair damage that may come around when something really does go wrong - KFC on-line coupon anyone? But to outright create a bad impression on your own - or through a company "spokesperson" is as a favorite media planner I know used to say "nutty".

Privacy, What Privacy?

There's been an awful lot of talk around privacy as it relates to social networking sites. I'm confused as to why people are shocked and amazed to hear that people can find out a lot of information about folks from these sites. I'm further confused that many people don't know how to adjust their privacy setting, either because they don't know they exist or don't care to find out.  Lately there has been a litany of apps that people can download to help them be sure they have the correct settings.

I guess my confusion is centered around the fact that people just don't bother to check out what they are signing up for. How often do people really look at the terms and conditions that some corporate lawyer has created for any site they use let alone a social networking site.  It would amaze you what the rules of the road are on some of these sites.

I recently signed up for a small business networking site and was asked to check the box on the "I agree to the terms and conditions below".  The very detailed terms included that the site could use anything that was written in any "comment" section as they saw fit, you lost any rights to it. They could develop an idea or sell an idea you may propose. They also prohibited the reposting of any of their material. I'm certain that most people don't check a sites policy before reposting material on the web, their blog or elsewhere.  Interesting.

So what does this all mean? Here's a couple of rules to think about, it may not include everything but it's a good start:

1) First off I'm not suggesting you leave Facebook. We all assumed the risk to some degree when we joined. Just check your privacy setting and determine which settings work best for you. Just keep in mind that the more you keep to yourself the less "social" the experience is.

2) This is an easy one. For goodness sake, don't put information on any social networking site you don't want anyone to see. That includes your employer, your HR department, your co-workers, your boss, your spouse/significant other, your family, and most importantly as I always say to my students your Grandmother. That's the bar I always use if I'm not sure. If I wouldn't want my Grandmother to see it - it doesn't go up. Period.

3) Know what you're getting yourself into. If you're not prepared to talk about certain subjects: religion, politics, sex, life-style choices, then don't start, like or comment on those conversations.

4) Stop whining, may be the most important one, surprise, surprise, social networks are trying to make money with advertising. To do that they look at your information and target messages to you that you might more likely respond to. Shocking. I guess we forgot about all the other forms of media that have been doing this for years.  This is called engaging, captivating, targeting (or some other clever name) a captive consumer group.

5) It's only 2010. The creepiness has just begun. Is it creepy? Certainly, and will it get creepier, you betcha. Anyone seen the facial recognition out-of-home screens yet? I have, and I think everyone can agree that it's creepy.

6) Have fun. Sharing information and staying in touch is wonderful. Folks a half a world away are seeing your ideas and experiences in real time. It feels like they are closer and still part of the dialogue.  And guess what? People like that. Sharing photos of loved ones, travel highlights or just life's simple pleasures couldn't really be any easier.

So please stop the chatter about privacy. It's gone, whether we like it or not.

SNL: Season Closer

Last thoughts on SNL for this season. Alec Baldwin although hosting for the 15th time was not enough to save SNL. The season closed with a typical boring and not funny show.


The fact that they started out the show with a bit on the Gulf oil spill was in such bad taste given the enormity of the ecological incident. It only got worse from there. I won't even bother to comment on Tom Petty - who is my musical artists I don't like list. It wouldn't be fair, since I'm far too biased.

So we'll wait to next fall to see who will host the opener. Time will tell if Lorne Michaels will continue to be swayed by the audience and bring in someone that is lobbied for, or stick to their usual suspects.

SNL: Who's Next Carol Burnett? More Cowbell...

The social media sites are a twitter today with who the next iconic comedian will be to be nominated for the SNL hosting spot. There's already a Carol Burnett to host SNL (Please?) fan page set up on Facebook, 37,000 folks have already signed up.

Should SNL capitalize on this fan based phenomenon? With fans begging for the show to feature their favorites where will it end? There's certainly lots of talented folks to tap into. Would the fan hosts increase the show ratings? In the end isn't that all the network is interested in? Ratings, and advertisers who want the highest ratings and the most buzz.  SNL hasn't enjoyed this much buzz in a long, long time.

When was the last time you looked up a SNL clip on YouTube or nbc.com? Mine was Cowbell with Christopher Walken and Will Ferrell.  Check it out.

More Cowbell

Still funny stuff.  We'll have to wait till next season, as this years season ends this Saturday with Alec Baldwin as guest host. Will he reprise his role and attempt Schweddy Balls again? I don't know but I'm guessing a few people will tune in to find out.

Betty White - SNL's Savior

 I have to tell you that I was an early fan of the "Betty White to Host SNL (Please?)" fan page on Facebook. I've always been a fan of Betty's. Even before her stint on my all time favorite, The Mary Tyler Moore Show, Betty has always been a brilliant comedic actress. Password, Match Game, Golden Girls, Boston Legal, countless movies (I loved her in Lake Placid, that was the first time we got to see her more wild side, she was so cute with the tiny aligators) and the list just goes on and on.

As the Reuters article below points out SNL posted it's highest ratings since November 1st, 2008 with Betty at the helm Saturday night.

Reuters Betty White article

The fact that a Facebook page helped launch the effort to have Betty host the stage is now a social media legend. There is just something about this woman that the American people just love.

If you missed the episode check it out on the link below:
Saturday Night Live Episode

I loved the show, Betty was at her best. Her comedic timing is impeccable. The fact that they brought back Tina Fey, Amy Pohler and Molly Shannon was just pure gravy.

I haven't been a regular SNL viewer for a zillion years. I grew up watching it with Jim Belushi, Dan Ackroyd, Jane Curtin, Gilda Radner, Garrett Morris and the crew, so watching the show deteriorate over the years and become unfunny has not been fun. Here's hoping that with the good ratings that come along with great hosts and great sketch comics the team at NBC and SNL will finally take a hard look at the cast and writers and make some changes. Clearly, television viewers will watch this kind of content but only if its fresh and good. The only bits that should have been deleted were the MacGruber segments. No matter how you slice it they are just not good, even Betty couldn't save it, although she certainly tried. I won't even get into the fact that this character is now in a full length motion picture forum - seriously?

Betty White - God bless you for saving SNL this week. I heard a rumor on Facebook that someone is going to launch a campaign to get Betty into the next Kennedy Center Honors. One can only dream.

Seriously, I'm back

Ok, I admit that I've been away far too long. I've decided after much thought and angst that I need to keep up with the blog. I was going to switch to a website - but I've read too much about how abandoning a blog is a bad idea(Cardinal Rule #1) For many reasons. So I'm back at it.

I admit that I was shocked and amazed that when I did come back that there were actually 10 comments on my last post. Sure, a lot of them were spammy but nonetheless folks did comment.  I thought that I set it up so I would get an email when I had posts. So I need to check those settings. Now I feel bad that I didn't respond. (Cardinal rule #2 broken).

So I'm back and I'll be responding, I promise. Seriously, I promise. I'm going to renew my focus on media. Of course, that doesn't mean that I'll stray from travel and leisure - but I'm going to focus on the media and all the fun stuff I've been learning, sharing and implementing with clients.

I'll try and save most of the travel and leisure for PoshPorts. Thanks for reading and please let me know what you think.